Comments on: Indian Americans Increasingly Pursuing Creative Jobs

By: Anupama Pillalamarri

Anupama Pillalamarri — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 18:23:00 +0000

I don’t have professional aspirations in standup. I work in politics .

And the cool thing is that no one in the family is putting such pressure on her – in fact she’s home-schooled and learns pretty much what she wants to learn (which is everything!)

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 21:08:00 +0000

Did you have support when taking your leap of faith, or was that expectation of the “three jobs” still there?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 21:07:00 +0000

I’m sure many others are in the same predicament as you. Thanks for contributing your thoughts to the discussion.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 21:06:00 +0000

Anupama, is performing standup comedy what you’re referring to here? And are you encouraging your niece to disregard that pressure?

By: Shawna

Shawna — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 20:06:00 +0000

I also grew up being told that there are only three jobs available – engineer, doctor, and attorney. After taking a leap of faith I started Maharaniweddings.com and made my dream job into a reality. I encourage more Indians to do what they love instead of falling into cookie cutter jobs. Life is too short!

By: Abhijit Ghosh

Abhijit Ghosh — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 19:53:00 +0000

I wanted to contribute my 2 cents. I am an Indian , yet to become an American (meaning naturalized an an American Citizen) and came here 10 years ago on a work visa. Some of us do not venture into professions other than which we were into at the time of our arrival into this country even if we want to because of the broken legal immigration system here.

Being born in a country like China or India and trying for gain permanent residence in this country via the employment path is a daunting experience. I am on temporary work visa and waiting in line for permanent residency for 8 years now and still nowhere close to it. With such uncertainty, people like me who would like to move towards a different career in business or profession are unable to do so as the law does not allow without paying a huge penalty. Now lets see whether I get the much awaited Green Card via my employment first or my son who was born here and still in elementary school, grows up and has to sponsor me a family based visa. Till I get the much awaited document, lives of people like me are on hold. Hope it is not latter option else it will be too late to venture into something new.

By: Elahe Izadi

Elahe Izadi — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 18:28:00 +0000

What an odyssey! Thanks for sharing your experience.

By: Soham Gandhi

Soham Gandhi — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 19:53:00 +0000

I grew up having my dad tell me from time to time that he wants me to become a doctor. So, I obeyed him out of respect. At the end of sophomore year of high school, I received a D- in Honors Biology and an A in Algebra II. When it came time to apply to colleges, I applied to schools as a Biology major (Biological Sciences at University of Delaware). My high school counselor said I should apply as an Undeclared major because I did not do so well in Biology. As I graduated high school, I entered the University of Delaware taking Intro to Biology, Chemistry, and Calculus both Fall and Spring semesters of my freshman year. That summer (after freshman year) I finished up the Organic Chemistries I and II. I did well. Then came sophomore year of college, more difficult courses: Microbiology, Genetics, and Human Physiology oh my! I struggled in these classes remaining intact with my goal to becoming a doctor. The grades I earned hurt my self-esteem, and I constantly took upper-level math classes to buffer this misery. It helped. Junior year was a complete waste of time. I finished the requirements to enter into the Medical Technology major at University of Delaware, so that was my new major in the Fall semester of my junior year. I got test scores like 59, 38, etc. I just couldn’t memorize the information. It just wouldn’t sink in. So I audited all my medical technology classes that semester and never showed up to any of them ever again. Thank God. I was out of this pre-med world with my pre-med classes in my pocket. Now what? I wanted to pursue something with MATH. So I gave Mechanical Engineering a shot. That was a waste of time because in Statics class I got scores like 37. Lesson learned here? Advanced math is not my forte. So now I am a Math Education K-8 major and love it. My goal is to become a teacher. My dad doesn’t mind me doing this. But, he always says that he would love for me to become a doctor. I mean, which Indian American parent doesn’t?

By: Anupama Pillalamarri

Anupama Pillalamarri — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 18:28:00 +0000

There was a lot of pressure on me to pursue a
traditionally brown person career until I had a meltdown. As I worked my way out of that, my mom
figured out that I really did need to do what I loved. Fortunately,
there will be no such pressure on my niece